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Thursday, September 11, 2003

Regrets...
I've had a few.
But then again,
Too few to mention!
--"My Way",
written by Paul Anka
When I hear that song, I think of Frank Sinatra, and sometimes Elvis or Sid Vicious -- all of whom have been known to perform, in their own unique manner, that wonderful song. Wonderful because -- though I don't always enjoy hearing it, I've heard it so much -- the song is a wonderful personal anthem. That's something we all need: a personal anthem. A song that praises our individuality; a mark of devotion to oneself. After all, they say you're going to have a helluva time loving anyone else unless you've first learned to love yourself, right?

This is not to replace your love for your God, or your spouse, or your family. I'm simply saying that we all need to give ourselves a bit more self-love at this time of year. (No, not that type of self-love !) Too many of us beat up on ourselves throughout the year, and then nearly destroy ourselves at year's end. No wonder there are so many suicides during the Holidays; the messages bombarding us are to Buy Buy Buy and to Give Give Give -- but what if you have nothing to give but love? If you have a dearth of that good stuff, then you'll have a bitch of a time spreading it around to your neighbors.

So be good to yourself, whether you're Christian, Pagan, Wiccan, Athiest, Hindu, Islamic, Mormon, Podcastin, or otherwise. Don't take the pills, they won't do you or anyone else any good; you'll simply miss out on the Next Big Thing (which may turn out to be Your Next Big Thing). Just do things your own way, singing that little hymn as you do so:
For what is a man,
What has he got?
If not himself,
Then he has naught.
To say the things,
He truly feels,
And not the words,
Of one who kneels.
The record shows,
I took the blows
And did it my way!

Wednesday, February 11, 2004

Blogger is being refreshingly creative in its presentation of the various features of its popular blog-publishing tool, inserting its Knowledge Base (tech support info.) in a series of thematic articles. Most recently, an article entitled "How to Network With Blogger" has been enlisted to demonstrate its various features, discussing classic job search strategies such as social networking by pointing out the ways you can use Blogger to meet and link with other like-minded bloggers.

This article first caught my attention because I'm preparing to look for work, and networking should certainly be near the top of the list in any decent job search strategy. I understand how vital networking can be to a career, but I've always shied away from it; networking used to seem like a dirty word to me. I could say that it's because the word includes the word "work" in it, but it's really because I used to feel that networking, in the career sense, was a superficial ritual, a way of establishing a safety net of relationships that was selfishly motivated--and I still believe it can be--but I'm growing out of that opinion, for the most part. I've come to believe that for most people, networking is simply a way of establishing a rapport with others; a way of developing a common bond with others you find interesting or drawn to. What will come out of this rapport is the safety net, of course, but one that should be viewed as mutually beneficial.

This is how networking works in theory; however, it wasn't until I began networking online that I began to experience this theory in practice.

I've discovered, through blogging and other online experiences, that I really enjoy communicating with others online. I enjoy commenting on issues, and receiving feedback; I enjoy reading other folk's commentary, and posting feedback to their websites; I enjoy participating in forums; I enjoy webcasting, both from the perspective of a broadcaster and a listener; I enjoy chatting with others; I enjoy linking to others; I enjoy being linked to; in short, I enjoy networking online. I'm interested in discovering how conscious other bloggers (or online writers and other online communicators) are of networking: Do you feel the need to communicate with other bloggers?

It's certainly a valuable aspect of this medium, enabling us to build up a social fabric of supportive (and not necessarily like-minded) individuals or groups; but to what extent are you aware of the need to build up this community? Do you make it a daily, conscious effort, or do you simply sit back and let your blog work for you, hoping to attract attention purely through the brilliance of your commentary? Do you link consistently to other bloggers, or do you link to others only when you absolutely must? Do you write articles based on blog commentary you've read elsewhere, with the intention of attracting other blogger's attention? Or do you insert links to other bloggers merely as a footnote to your commentary, without a care in your mind as to whether another blogger ever takes notice?

As inept as I am at networking in the real world, I'm fully focused on establishing an online community. First and foremost, I find it fun--it's fun to communicate with others online, whether it's through blogs, email, Instant Messaging, webcasting, gaming, chatting, or voice-over-IP. I find it thrilling to communicate with people all over the globe, discussing a world of issues that expands far beyond my local neighborhood. As far as networking's relationship to online publishing, I find that it makes the experience more meaningful. Sure, I could write commentary or fiction online without any expectation of it being read by anyone, but what's the fun in that? If that was my intention, there wouldn't be any reason for me to publish online. Blogging is fundamentally communicative, so why stop at simple (and solitary) commentary? I find it necessary to reach out to other bloggers, to see what they have to say about matters, and to engage them in the more social aspects of blogging.

So let me to engage you now. We'll begin by putting the networking theory into practice--I've installed a new commenting system to the blog (see below this post), so please use it to post feedback to this blog at any time. After you've posted your feedback, I'll post feedback on your feedback, and so on. We'll see how fun we can make this, communicating with each other, building an online community. We may not even realize were networking.
posted by Harold  2/11/2004 05:16:00 PM
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I once posted, in this space (this right column), the following:

If I had friends they would be listed here

That particular bit o' text, that silly and idiotic phrase, was repeated a dozen or two dozen or so times and was intended to be temporary. I had been working on a project -- a new layout for this blog -- and had intended for that text to be placeholder content. That is, the text was supposed to temporarily replace the content that had previously occupied this column (which was a list of links to friends -- that is, other blogs and web sites I linked to). I didn't know what content I was going to place into that (this) space, so I placed a bunch of duplicate phrases here as a placeholder so that I would remember to fill in this space again later.

At the same time, I thought I was being cute with the heading:

NEW & IMPROVED FRIENDS!

The fact remains: I still don't know what content to put here, in this column. Links again? Pictures? Video? Audio? Ads? Oh, hell no! It hasn't come to me yet, but I'm sure it will eventually, and when it does it'll come quick and (as usual) with consequences.